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Opening night of the 29th Arpa International Film Festival at the iconic TCL Chinese Theatre in Hollywood speaking with filmmakers, actors, producers, and festival voices about ambition, success, identity, and the real price of fame.
Because behind every glamorous premiere is a deeper conversation with:
Leads: @svevaalviti X @newtonmayenge
Director: @erik_bernard_filmmaker
Film Festival: @arpafilmfestival
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Host wears: @zieboutique
Sometimes “you live in your own world” is meant as criticism. But the world you create internally matters. Your attention, boundaries, beliefs, routines, and the people you allow close to you all shape the reality you experience.
Creating your own world doesn’t have to mean avoiding reality. It can mean being intentional about what you give your energy to, protecting your peace, and building a life that actually feels like yours.
So yes… I live in my own world. I worked hard to create it. 🤍
Glow starts with consistency ✨
My 4-step brightening routine with @isoi_global is all about hydration, radiance, and helping my skin look more even and refreshed.
Eye patches → mask → serum → cream 🌹
Simple, soothing, and exactly the kind of glow-up my skin loves.
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A lot of people don’t form opinions. They inherit them from the crowd.
They won’t support you when supporting you requires independent judgment. They’ll watch, stay silent, and wait to see what everyone else thinks.
But once enough people approve of you, suddenly it feels safe to clap.
That’s the psychology of social proof: when we’re uncertain, we often look to other people to decide what deserves our attention, trust, or approval.
So sometimes the silence around you isn’t a reflection of your value.
You just haven’t become popular enough for the crowd to feel comfortable agreeing yet. Emmys afterparty with @becomeamodelusa and @teranicouture cover photo @baklykova_katrine
A reminder of why it matters who we discuss our most important decisions with.
Friends can love us deeply and still give advice through the lens of their own experiences, fears, values, and personal history. Their perspective may be sincere, but it is still their perspective.
A good therapist’s role is different. Rather than telling you what decision to make, they help you understand your patterns, emotions, needs, boundaries, and motivations so you can arrive at a decision that is genuinely yours.
Sometimes support sounds like, “Here’s what I would do.”
Professional guidance sounds more like, “Let’s understand why you feel this way and what you truly want.”
There is a big difference between being advised and being guided toward your own clarity. 🤍
A healthy relationship isn’t one where you never argue. It’s one where being connected matters more than being right.
Emotional maturity is being able to notice when a disagreement has stopped being about the problem and started hurting the person you love.
Sometimes the strongest thing someone can do in the middle of conflict is soften. Lower their voice. Put the ego aside. Reach for you instead of trying to defeat you.
An apology doesn’t always mean, “You were right and I was wrong.”
Sometimes it means, “I care about us more than I care about winning this moment.”
Choose someone who doesn’t use your vulnerability against you. Someone who can disagree with you and still protect the emotional safety between you.
Because love isn’t proven by how someone treats you when everything is easy.
It’s revealed in how they treat you when they’re angry.
One of the most beautiful qualities in a man is his ability to listen to the woman he loves without immediately trying to fix her.
She tells him what happened, and he doesn’t interrupt.
He doesn’t tell her she’s overreacting.
He doesn’t rush to give advice or find a solution.
He listens.
Because sometimes when a woman shares her emotions, she isn’t handing you a problem to solve. She’s inviting you into her inner world.
There’s something incredibly intimate about a man who can sit beside a woman’s emotions without becoming defensive, impatient, or uncomfortable.
He lets her finish.
He asks questions.
He tries to understand.
And most importantly, he makes her feel heard.
Not every conversation needs a solution.
Sometimes love sounds like:
“I’m here. Tell me everything.” ❤️
Closing the door is easy in theory.
Keeping it closed is the hard part.
We often go back to people, relationships, and situations we already decided to leave not because they suddenly became right for us, but because they’re familiar.
The brain often prefers the predictable over the unknown. Even an unhealthy pattern can feel strangely comforting when you already know how it works.
The unfamiliar asks us to sit with uncertainty.
To be alone for a while.
To resist checking their page.
To stop answering “just one more” message.
To grieve not only the person, but the future we imagined with them.
And sometimes we mistake missing what’s familiar for missing what’s good for us.
Growth is realizing:
You can miss someone and still not go back.
You can love someone and still close the door.
You can feel uncomfortable with your new life without reopening your old one.
Sometimes healing isn’t closing the door.
It’s choosing not to open it again.
We hang out with a lot of people.
We laugh together, go to dinners, celebrate birthdays, take trips, call each other “friends.”
But friendship isn’t really tested when life is fun.
Ask yourself: Who do you call when you can’t handle your own emotions?
Who can hear the messy version of the story without judging you?
Who stays when you’re anxious, confused, heartbroken, angry or simply not entertaining?
Who makes you feel safe enough to be unfiltered instead of impressive?
Psychologically, emotional safety is one of the deepest forms of intimacy. You can know someone for years and still never feel truly safe with them. And sometimes, the person you rarely see is the first person you call when your world falls apart.
Maybe your real inner circle isn’t the people you spend the most time with.
Maybe it’s the people you don’t have to perform for.
Those are the VIPs ❤️
A woman doesn’t become “hard” overnight.
Sometimes what looks like distance, independence, control, or emotional walls is actually adaptation.
When a relationship repeatedly feels unpredictable, dismissive, or emotionally unsafe, the nervous system learns: I need to protect myself.
She may stop asking.
Stop depending.
Stop being vulnerable.
Stop expecting someone to catch her.
And then comes the question: “Why aren’t you soft with me anymore?”
Because softness requires safety.
Vulnerability isn’t something you can demand from another person. It grows where there is consistency, emotional responsibility, respect, and trust.
And this applies to both women and men: when someone spends too long protecting themselves inside a relationship, eventually protection can replace connection.
If you want someone’s softness, don’t criticize their armor. Ask what happened that made them feel they needed it.
Love isn’t just being loved when everything is easy.
It’s creating a relationship where neither person has to live in survival mode.
We celebrated the end of summer with the kids and their parents on the beautiful rooftop at @mondaysatthemission 🤍
A huge thank you to @lawestbbq for the delicious pizza, and to our wonderful bachata teacher @thatpackmachine for bringing so much love, joy, energy, and movement to the evening! 💃✨
Friends, if you’d like to contribute to Mondays at the Mission whether by volunteering, sponsoring, donating, or sharing a skill you can teach the kids please DM me. Every contribution can make these moments even more special❤️
Every well-respected woman knows: great makeup starts with great skincare. ✨
Lately, I’ve been upgrading my routine with Korean skincare from @isoi_global , and I finally understand the hype. 🇰🇷🌹
Their Brightening Serum is a 10-time award-winning product at @oliveyoung_us and it’s quickly becoming one of those products I genuinely look forward to using. I love how it leaves my skin looking fresh, radiant, and ready for makeup.
Because the best makeup base isn’t another layer of foundation it’s healthy-looking, well-cared-for skin. 🤍
Skincare first. Makeup second. Glow always. ✨
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This post is not meant to offend men consider it a sweet little reminder to choose kindness, respect, and gentlemanly behavior. 😉
Recently, I was called an “idiot” by a man I genuinely believed was a gentleman and a respectful human being. Needless to say, it was… disappointing.
Because here’s the thing: offensive words don’t make a man a man. They make you sound like a boy throwing a tantrum because he didn’t get his way 😂
So, to all the boys out there pretending to be men:
What would you do if you had to be a real gentleman for one day?
Choose respect? Communicate like an adult? Be kind?
It might be a fun challenge😉
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🎙️ August 6 at 6:00 PM — don’t miss my new interview with a psychoanalyst @sergiidave @psychology_health_live
We explore the differences between psychology, psychotherapy, and psychoanalysis, and dive into one of the topics so many of us are fascinated by: How do we choose our romantic partners?
This conversation is packed with insightful theory, practical perspectives, and thought-provoking ideas that may change the way you understand yourself and your relationships.
The interview is in Russian, but YouTube now offers an incredible translation feature. Simply open the video, tap Settings (⚙️), choose Audio Track, and select your preferred language to listen in translation.
See you at 6:00 PM! ✨
The full interview is now live on our channel. ✨🎤
A conversation about fear, choice, motherhood, self-discovery, and why the hardest journey is often the one that leads us back to ourselves.
“Armine” is more than the story of one woman. It is a conversation about countless women who, at some point, ask themselves: “What is it that I truly want?”
A story about family, love, sacrifice, dreams, and every woman’s right to choose the life she wants to live by @vardcreative @armine.film.official
Every child deserves access to inspiration, knowledge, and positive role models. ✨
@mondaysatthemission is creating a space where professionals, entrepreneurs, creatives, and mentors can share their expertise through meaningful workshops and conversations with kids.
Do you have a skill, passion, or message that could inspire the next generation? Your knowledge could spark a dream, build confidence, or change a child’s perspective.
Join us as a guest speaker and help make an impact one workshop at a time💫 DM your workshop idea! 💛
#MondaysAtTheMission #GiveBack #InspireTheNextGeneration #CommunityImpact
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With @trailblazer_queen_productions founder @meenakshiravi_2010
Interview with @thecarlirose
Host wears @micas.official dress @meenakshiravi_2010 wears @josephauren Designers
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Artists
Global In-house Artist @chasebellmusic
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With @trailblazer_queen_productions founder @meenakshiravi_2010
Interview with @chasebellmusic the founder of @innercircle.usa
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Men’s Luxury Wear @josephauren
Women’s Classic @trend_and_tradition_designer
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Artists
Global In-house Artist @chasebellmusic
African inspired artist @richdofficial
Red Carpet Host @eugeniia_gul
Beauty Sponsor @vitality_sunshine
Media @eddiero_
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With @trailblazer_queen_productions founder @meenakshiravi_2010 who is also a global ambassador for Joseph Auren.
Interview with @josephauren
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Men’s Luxury Wear @josephauren
Women’s Classic @trend_and_tradition_designer
Exclusive launch @marymagdaleneco
Artists
Global In-house Artist @chasebellmusic
African inspired artist @richdofficial
Red Carpet Host @eugeniia_gul
Beauty Sponsor @vitality_sunshine
Media @eddiero_
@photographyjimblankemeier
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Musić is everything! Channel @mananalatinaoficial
With @trailblazer_queen_productions founder @meenakshiravi_2010
Interview with @richdofficial
Host wears @micas.official dress @meenakshiravi_2010 wears @josephauren Designers
Men’s Luxury Wear @josephauren
Women’s Classic @trend_and_tradition_designer
Exclusive launch @marymagdaleneco
Artists
Global In-house Artist @chasebellmusic
African inspired artist @richdofficial
Red Carpet Host @eugeniia_gul
Beauty Sponsor @vitality_sunshine
Media @eddiero_
@photographyjimblankemeier
MUA @margaritas.mkup @gala.marchyshak @nailskintoes_bymichi @hasmikhair_stylist @ru.makeup.us
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Channel @mananalatinaoficial
With @trailblazer_queen_productions founder @meenakshiravi_2010
Host wears @micas.official dress Designers
Men’s Luxury Wear @josephauren
Women’s Classic @trend_and_tradition_designer
Exclusive launch @marymagdaleneco
Artists
Global In-house Artist @chasebellmusic
African inspired artist @richdofficial
Red Carpet Host @eugeniia_gul
Beauty Sponsor @vitality_sunshine
Media @eddiero_
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Women who inspire ❤️ Interview with @kendraerika a Billboard-charting singer, songwriter, and actress from Boca Raton, Florida.
Blending pop, dance, and jazz-inspired vocals with theatrical storytelling, Kendra has captivated audiences with her powerful voice, magnetic stage presence, and genre-defying artistry. She has performed at renowned venues, including SUR Restaurant & Lounge in Los Angeles, and continues to make her mark as one of today’s most dynamic independent artists.
Event powered by @chasebellmusic
Location @cielofarms
Host glam @styles_by_margarita X @browsbymarina_
Host dress @micas.official
Red-carpet interviews presented by @belin_dmitrii
#60SecondsOfWisdom #EugeniiaGul #WeAreTheLight #Inspiration
Every event I attend has a purpose.
As a red carpet host and MC, showing up isn’t just about wearing a beautiful dress or taking photos. It’s part of my business strategy and, more importantly, my mission.
✨ First, you support your colleagues simply by being present @socialmixlosangeles
✨ Second, you create opportunities to meet people who may one day become your clients, collaborators, or friends.
✨ Third, you remind past clients that you’re still here, growing, creating, and available.
That’s exactly what happened yesterday. I ran into @may.goldi.5 and during a simple conversation, I was invited to be the MC for a Kids Film Festival in San Diego this August.
A reminder that opportunities often don’t come from perfect timing - they come from showing up.
But here’s the psychological question I want to leave you with:
Why do you show up?
Is it to network?
To build your brand?
To learn?
To sell?
To feel inspired?
To support others?
Or simply because you don’t want to be alone?
There is no wrong answer as long as you’re honest with yourself.
When your actions are aligned with your “why,” your energy becomes intentional instead of scattered. You stop chasing every invitation and start investing your time where it truly serves your purpose.
Because time is the one thing you will never get back. Protect it. Invest it wisely. Let every “yes” move you closer to the life you’re building, not further away from it.
P.S. Wearing this beautiful dress from @micas.official. ✨
Everyone had something to say before I went red… ❤️🔥
The truth? I chose @splathairdye bleach-free formula because I wanted a bold new look without bleaching my hair first. It was easy to apply, and I love how the color turned out.
✨ Watch my next reel to see exactly how I did it, I’ll show you the process step by step!
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✨ Welcome to my new recurring series: 60 Seconds of Wisdom with Eugeniia Gul.
I’m honored to kick off the very first episode with the incredible @ a filmmaker, philanthropist, and truly beautiful human being.
Thank you, Ewart, for being my very first guest. It was an honor to have you.
Episode 1: “We Are the Light.” ✨
May these 60-second conversations inspire you, challenge your perspective, and remind you of the light we all carry within.
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If I had a one-woman show, it wouldn’t be about having all the answers.
It would be about becoming.
About leaving one country and finding yourself in another.
About grief that teaches you how to love deeper.
About dreams that survive rejection.
About the masks we wear… and the courage it takes to finally remove them.
It would be about psychology, spirituality, and the invisible conversations we have with ourselves every single day.
It would be about ambition without losing your soul.
Success without forgetting your humanity.
And the quiet moments that change us far more than the loud ones.
There would be laughter.
There would be tears.
There would be uncomfortable truths.
There would be hope.
Because every role I’ve ever played, in life and on stage has taught me that we are not here to become perfect.
We are here to become more fully ourselves.
Maybe that’s the show we’re all performing.
The question is… are you playing the role everyone expects, or the one your soul came here to live?
🎭 If my one-woman show had a title, what do you think it should be?
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Today, America celebrates 250 years of freedom. And today, my best friend would have celebrated his 39th birthday.
He is no longer on this Earth, yet he continues to exist in the quiet places of my heart.
Life has taught me that the greatest illusion we live under is not that we have forever - it is believing there will always be another tomorrow.
the “normalcy bias”: we unconsciously assume life will continue exactly as it did yesterday. Philosophy reminds us of memento mori remember that you will die not to make us fear death, but to teach us how to truly live. And many spiritual traditions believe that love never disappears; it simply changes form. Energy cannot be destroyed. Souls leave the physical world, but the imprint of love remains.
So today, I want to gently remind you:
Release the anger you’ve been carrying.
Forgive, even if it’s only to free your own heart.
Text your mom.
Call your dad.
Tell your best friend you love them.
Message your crush.
Hug your partner a little longer.
Stop waiting for the “right moment.”
Ego says, “Let them text first.”
Love says, “What if this is your last chance?”
I learned this lesson in the hardest way imaginable. One day my best friend was alive. The next day… he was gone.
No warning.
No final conversation.
No opportunity to say one more thing.
Since then, I’ve realized that every goodbye is sacred because we never know which one will be the last.
This 4th of July, while we celebrate freedom, may we also choose another kind of freedom the freedom from pride, resentment, fear, and the stories that keep us from loving fully.
Nothing in this world is guaranteed except this present moment.
Don’t take love for granted.
Don’t take friendship for granted.
Don’t take people for granted.
And please… don’t postpone your heart.
Happy Birthday, my dear friend. Until we meet again.
Love you all❤️
Today, I stepped into the role of a pregnant woman during class at @losangelesactingstudio 🎭
That’s what I love most about acting.
One day I’m a prosecutor.
The next I’m a detective.
A CEO.
An escort.
A villain.
A mother.
A woman who’s about to give birth.
Every character asks the same question:
“What if this was my life?”
Acting isn’t pretending. It’s practicing empathy.
The more lives you step into, the less you judge your own, and the more compassion you develop for others.
Our beliefs are shaped by our experiences. Acting lets us temporarily borrow someone else’s experience. And in doing so, it quietly expands our own consciousness.
Maybe that’s why I believe acting isn’t only an art form it’s one of the most powerful tools for understanding human nature.
Every role leaves you a little wiser than before.
Some summers come and go.
And then there’s the one that changes you.
The one where you finally say yes to the trip.
Yes to meeting new people.
Yes to taking the chance.
Yes to becoming the version of yourself you’ve been waiting for.
Years from now, you probably won’t remember every deadline or every routine.
You’ll remember the sunset that took your breath away.
The conversation that shifted your perspective.
The laughter that made your stomach hurt.
The moment you realized you were truly living.
Make this the summer you’ll tell stories about for the rest of your life.
What’s one thing you’re saying “yes” to this summer? ☀️✨
What a woman becomes in your presence is the most honest feedback you will ever receive as a man.
Not what she says out of politeness. Not what she posts. Not even what she tries to explain later.
But what happens to her nervous system when she’s around you.
Does she soften or tense?
Does she expand or contract?
Does she feel safe enough to be expressive, or does she start managing herself?
Because attraction is not just chemistry it’s regulation.
A healthy man doesn’t only ask: “Does she like me?”
He observes: “Who is she when she’s with me?”
Does she become more playful, more present, more alive?
Or does she become careful, guarded, slightly smaller than she is with other people?
And the same is true in reverse.
A woman doesn’t just fall for what a man says he is.
She responds to what her body experiences around him.
Consistency creates calm.
Emotional volatility creates hyper-awareness.
Presence creates femininity.
Absence, even in the same room, creates distance.
This is why intention matters more than performance.
You can impress someone and still dysregulate them.
You can say all the right things and still make them feel unsafe in subtle ways.
And you can also say very little…
and create a space where someone finally exhales.
So the real question is not:
“What does she think of me?”
It is:
“What does she become around me and am I proud of that?”
Not everyone drains you in obvious ways.
Sometimes it’s the conversation that leaves you overthinking.
The visit that makes you feel emotionally heavy.
The relationship where you’re constantly walking on eggshells.
The person who leaves your body tense long after they’ve gone.
Pay attention to what your nervous system is telling you.
If every interaction requires days to feel like yourself again, that’s not something to ignore it’s information.
Your energy is a limited resource. Your peace is valuable. And protecting it isn’t selfish; it’s part of taking care of yourself.
The healthiest “yes” often begins with a respectful “no.”
Your body often notices what’s unhealthy before your mind is ready to admit it. GLAM by @ladydonica_makeupartist Shoot has nothing to do with the capture of the post ❤️
What if the final stage of spirituality isn’t escaping the material world… but learning to have fun in it again?
Many of us begin our spiritual journey trying to transcend the human experience.
We meditate to quiet the mind.
We detach from our ego.
We question success, money, relationships, and ambition.
We learn that happiness doesn’t come from external things.
And that’s important.
But what if that’s only the middle of the journey?
What if true spirituality isn’t about rejecting the material world but changing the way we relate to it?
You no longer chase money because you believe it will make you worthy.
You create wealth because it allows you to express yourself, create impact, and experience freedom.
You don’t seek love to complete you.
You love because your heart has something to give.
You don’t build a business to prove your value.
You build because creating is part of who you are.
You wear beautiful clothes because you enjoy beauty.
You travel because you’re curious.
You celebrate your wins without needing them to define you.
The material world stops being your identity and becomes your playground.
Children don’t need a reason to laugh, dance, or explore.
They simply experience life.
Maybe enlightenment isn’t becoming less human.
Maybe it’s becoming so awake that you can fully embrace being human.
To enjoy without attachment.
To achieve without obsession.
To love without possession.
To receive without guilt.
To lose without losing yourself.
Maybe the final stage of spirituality isn’t leaving the game.
Maybe it’s remembering that life was never a test to survive.
It was an experience to fully live.
what they are really doing is filtering you through their own perception, their own wounds, their own definitions of what is “acceptable,” “comfortable,” or “familiar.” People rarely describe reality as it is. They describe how reality feels inside of them.
Some will meet your softness and call it weakness. Others will meet your boundaries and call them attitude. Some will feel your confidence as charm, others as threat. The same energy, translated differently depending on who is looking.
And over time you start to understand: you were never meant to be one fixed label in someone else’s language. You are not here to shrink into consistency just to be easily understood.
You are here to exist fully even if that makes you misread, misnamed, or misunderstood.
Because the truth is, their labels are not your identity. They are their reflection. Video by @slavapedan.ph at @becomeamodelusa show
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